Oh I am so sorry. I hope you did get some support. It is devastating when someone else enters your marriage. I'm certain my H is back with the OW as of this weekend. So I have so much empathy for you right now.

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16