In answer to your question our sl was great when things were good and suicidal when the problems started to non existent when i moved out the mbr. I then fell into a ea turned pa and contact was minimal and distant. In dec 2014 i stopped pa to work on mr and may 2015 found that something was going on though during that time she had travelled with me a few times but things were still tense. She began to change around aig sept 2015 but nov 2015 saw them both walking from gim talking.
They split him to car and she home. I confronted her and she claimed they were talking about his w who is being treated for the big c. I told her i did not care and nc was nc. She could not see anything wrong and brought our son in on argument and was shocked when he told her i was right.
I threw a lot of her stuff into spare room and was moving rest when all hell broke loose and she threw a tantrum as i did not stop moving her stuff out.
She left and when she came back hours later slept on couch. I had mbr door closed. In the morning she sat on bed woke me up and said she was sorry and wanted to make it work.
I told her nc was nc and next time i was leaving and fir goid.
Since then we are in a sort of piecing with a positive trend where she speaks softly and respectfully and we some days have a laugh but ..... No sex.
It just reminds me if when we were living together years ago and sex was always an issue. I do not want to go back to the friend zone and no sex because this r will not work without it if it is a unilateral decision.
If it is a case of time to get there then fine. If it is a case of that not being one of her objectives then no. Hell no.
