I don't get it either. Are they afraid she will cut them off if they don't agree with her? Maybe. I could see that possibly happening. If she didn't see things the same as someone then she would just move on.
Is your husband that way?
I know when they are in this mindset they look for validation. If they don't get it, bye
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15