Painter you are the best. I took this advice and it went well!
I sent him the text you suggested. He said he went to his parents aka his house to sleep and forgot. I just said to let me know next time etc. He got slightly defensive and was like why does it matter when I come. I just said all I'm asking to know is if you are changing or cancelling the plans. Thats it. He was like ok ok fine.
Hopefully it works. 10minutes later he asked if he was allowed to come over and see the kids. He came and is semi hanging out with them. He goes from watching tv in our bedroom to hanging out in the living room.
Kinda annoying he will not keep them overnight tonight since he has to be at training early, but I'm letting it go. I am being fun, fabulous, laughing, smiling, faking it out the butt today because I really just want to go to bed and pout.
He declined dinner with us and sat on the couchand just watched me and the kids smili ng, eating, joking. He eventually, got himself some but sat alone on the couch and now pouting in our room. ( open floor plan from the couch you can see the kitchen table)
He confuses me. Not going to think about it or what is going on in his head.
I will say today was a success in my books! I GAL and went to the park and lunch with my kids and girlfriend-her kids. Nice day!It feels almost like before the big D drop. Just a nice day.
