Toast - burnt or just right

[rich4j]

Even after 7 months, I would still welcome the chance to at least try. But he filed, bought a house and told our sons the D is proceeding. So, I think it's time for me to start rejecting the idea too. Sorry you are feeling discouraged. I completely understand. And we have very similar timelines.

I think its hard "Broke" to pack away the idea of R. But I have had too and while i say its done, i actually only in the last month or so have really FELT it.

My prior thread, Hope is not a Strategy, is how i felt. Hoping things would change but it just hurt too much.

She has turned colder, selfish, and acting as if she is already divorced. Its a bad environment for me to be in the same house and for those of us that have to endure this it is painful.

Just not really fair that I am the one who probably has to physically leave the house when she is the one who wants out. As she would say "you are the one who left me a few years ago "...... Justify Justify Justify

Starting to figure out the financials and I have no idea how I will manage. Things feel bleak in that department.