Thank you for being brutally honest. I think I fall into this category of Mr. Nice guy in a lot of ways and not wanting to do anything hoping it will get better. With a WW I have learned it only continues and they will only push further. I believe that she doesn't have respect for me and that is ultimately necessary if there will ever be an R and also even if we only end up co-parenting.
Well, I have seen a lot of divorced couples co-parent who didn't necessarily respect each other. But of course, it sure helps if they do and can be civil to one another.
The book No More Mr. Nice Guy is a free download, if you want to read it and see more details about what a nice-guy type is. I can't give the link, but it's not hard to find.
Thanks for your input here.
Can you tell us the author of the book? I'm getting multiple hits by that name.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done