Keeping some of this together--- I made a post in Sandy's thread. I think I fall into the nice guy category. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2654255&#Post2654255

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done