This is going to be where my real work is done. Early on in my first thread I had a realization one Sunday morning at a men's meeting. And...last night it was reinforced while sitting in a Divorce Care session where they were discussing spirituality and the happiness and healthiness that comes with letting go of anger.
That is the most important thing I learned from Divorce Care. That holding on to anger and resentment and unforgiveness is poison and killing YOU, while the person you are so angry with is totally oblivious and going their merry way. Forgiving is SO freeing.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17