By the description of your WW, she is in complete fantasy land. She has this idea that she can keep her nice home, continue with family activities, have the OM, and you and OM will be BFF's............just one happy family. The sooner she is shocked into the reality of this situation, the better for everyone concerned.
This!!!
W actually admitted to me that she thought I would just agree to pick up and move with her and the kids so that she could be with OM, and that she thought I'd actually be happy bout it!
When she said it out loud, she said " I guess I never really realized how in the fog I actually was until I just heard myself say that..."
