Thanks Sandi, I have been keeping out of the way and telling her to figure things out for herself. This is what she says she wants. This came about from her when I told her that I will expect the key of the house back when she leaves, that she will have to get her own car if she feels she needs one. I had the impression she thought she could come back to the house whenever she felt like it. I made that clear it wasn't happening that way. I don't tell her where I'm going, when I will be back etc. I don't think you are being harsh, I agree with you that she needs to be hit with some sort of crash.
She even suggested that I could have the apartment and she would stay in the house. I said no to that naturally. It is almost like the apartment is not as appealing as the house anymore.
She said she has a lot of feelings and emotions in her head, she knows this but isn't ready to face then yet I guess. I know it's not my job to help her or try and push her. She has to figure it in her own time. Thanks Sandi.
