Sorry just going to vent a bit and work some anger out.... And here it goes...
Text from her "Can I stop at your house and get the last of my things. I am going to take some of the curtains I bought."
Me: "Sure can you tell me what curtains you plan to take so I can prepare and get new ones" "Oh yeah did you take my drill?"
Her paraphrased Pretty much all the curtains. Oh yeah I guess I did when do you need it back.
Me: no rush
Her: The water company cant stop payment on the check for the water bill so you can just pay me back.
WTF (sorry if that is not allowed) She lived at the house rent and bill free for a month, while I got an apartment so as to give her, her space. The only bills I ever asked her to pay was the water and garbage. Everything else I paid! I went home last week to find a shut off notice of the water so rather than the kids going without water I went and paid the past due bill $200. She went in the next day to paid the bare minimum to keep the water on, not knowing I already paid it. Keep in mind the garbage was shut off because she failed to pay for months (which I took care of) and the water was not paid for months either. Now she expects me to pay her back for her past due bill!!! Keep in mind she conveniently has not mentioned the fact that her car is still on my auto insurance policy which I pay.
How can I not be ANGRY!
I am thinking about how to answer this without sounding as p!$$ed off as I am and making a big thing of it. "Your check was for the past due amount for while you were living there which you owed $290. I just paid it because I did not want the kids to go without water for the last week you lived there." Which will see the response of you are such an a#$hole. "I could say I do not have it right now. We can talk about it in the future." Not sure what reaction I will get out of this. Or I could say, "Sure and we should get your car insurance changed over!! BTW you owe for the last few months"
Ugh If I give in and pay then I am a doormat. If I don't then she moves further away.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16
