Originally Posted By: WillDo
You have been going takip therapy with your S. That's good. You will be able to discuss with guidance. Just remember the points you have learned about marrriage. And keep reading all Self Help books.
Hang in there. Everything will be fine.


I’ve been thinking about the things I’ve learned in therapy over the last few months. She says she needs more support around the house and with the kids. She needs to feel taken care of and cared for. She needs me to be less anxious.

A 180 would be to do these things to the extreme. But I don’t know how I could do them given our current situation. Would that per her in cake-eating mode? Or do I just go for it anyway since I don’t have many options?


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done