You have been going takip therapy with your S. That's good. You will be able to discuss with guidance. Just remember the points you have learned about marrriage. And keep reading all Self Help books. Hang in there. Everything will be fine.
I’ve been thinking about the things I’ve learned in therapy over the last few months. She says she needs more support around the house and with the kids. She needs to feel taken care of and cared for. She needs me to be less anxious.
A 180 would be to do these things to the extreme. But I don’t know how I could do them given our current situation. Would that per her in cake-eating mode? Or do I just go for it anyway since I don’t have many options?
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done