Hi Cadet, I didn't read down here - I'll take Wonka's advice to heart. While I doubt my Mother In-Law would share the book I couldn't guarantee it. Especially since it says "save the marriage", which is what she feels is right.
It's weird that the W was so very Christian for so very long, and another "symptom" I didn't notice right away was her pulling away from God. While I was the worst when it came to going to Church (that changed, I got the message) - W always went. But sometime around the time my Mother moved into the area and started going with my in-laws - who became the best of buddies - well that also irked W and she just quit.
Perhaps a couple of reasons, but I'm sure she didn't want to hear from anyone about what she was doing. And again, I never asked, I never pushed it - but it was a major part of her life she just eliminated.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)