Thanks everyone - it's only been a month but it feels like forever. Heck, I haven't even heard from my lawyer for 2 weeks - which I guess is ok since they've burned through half the retainer and haven't done anything yet.
Sandi, so do you think giving the book to my Mother In-Law is off limits too? I'll go with your call on this one. I just thought it might help her see what's happened as she's searching for answers as well. It breaks my heart to see her like this too.
I did see that recently the next-highest and increasing divorce rate is in 25-30 year marriages. Very sad. It doesn't make me feel any better to know other people are in the same boat - so close to retirement actually. Nothing like losing it all on lawyers.
I was just out at the hardware store, and got a call from my Wife's assistant wanting to know something about outlook. I had offered my assistance 2 weeks ago for the last time on her computer - and she said there was an IT guy taking care of it, which I thought was great. So I guess something went screwy - but chances are it's nothing but a temporary hiccup. I'm not going to return the call - but fully expect to start getting harassed if it doesn't resolve itself.
I guess I get a proxy for my W, huh?
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)