Have some patience 1313. Work on you right now. Remember GAL is for you not for her. So go out and have some fun (yeah like any of us early in our sitch can just do that, if we could it wouldn't hurt so much). Better... find something you can indulge in that takes your mind off your sitch, even if for the briefest of times. I happen to be very obsessive compulsive so my sitch NEVER leaves my mind but when I do get a work out in, I find that for that 1 hour I am at peace. I hope you too can find something you enjoy that will get you out of your head for a bit.

BTW I was in the Navy and stationed in CA... Loved it! CA not the Navy so much.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16