Hi Sotto. Doesn't sound like those convos are healthy and as you well know nothing heard can be believed or even if it's heard correctly You seem to have a handle on it and it clutter in your head that you don't need.
Your doing an excellent job moving forward with your life and you the Queen of GAL.
I like to think your H will come to his senses one day but either way your doing all you can to deal with your own life
I think it's ok to be a bit down or peed off but nothing has really changed Try to put it out of your mind and know that it's his loss Sotto will be happy again and from what I read she's well on the way