One of the best things you can do is fill in your tags at the bottom. My stuff edit profile then at the bottom. It makes it easier for posters to post to you as it memory jogs.
Which tags are you referring to here V?
Me:41 - LBH in apt W:39 - WW in home Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42 M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15 (PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)