Hi Isit, good to hear from you and glad you decided to take the flat. At least it gives you some breathing space whilst you look for a longer term option. I know you can rent garages pretty cheaply through the local housing trust....just in case of any interest.
Feeling a little unsettled today. Had lunch out with My SS and HXW. We had a nice time and it's nice to keep in touch, but I do find it easier not to have that link with H and receive snippets of news. I keep the convos to general stuff mainly - but there's always a bit of something creeps in. So, it appears the original OW is still very much on the scene. SS doesn't really talk fondly of her - though he seems to think she is ok (he is 15 of course..) His Mum says she has no desire to meet this woman and generally doesn't talk positively of H.
She said there is always a spin at the end of R's and she imagines I was given a spin by H. I said something like - I guess we all have our own take on everything and didn't pursue further. Just all a little difficult and a convo avenue to better sidestep next time - oh well. It's evident they very much think our R is completely over and OW is now very much H's girlfriend. I guess it's helpful to know the status of things and I just need to keep moving forward. I think I generally do pretty well - but TBH as time goes on I see less and less of a way back for us and I'm moving towards complete closure.
Otherwise, all is well and I'm busy socially - yoga tonight, out on Fri and Sat nights with friends and helping a friend with a house move on Sunday. No more news from the L on possible settlement matters and D, but presume she has written to H's L with our proposal by now.
Take care all xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
