Thank you Sandi, I don't really understand what you mean by temp checking though.
It is when the W is checking to see if she still holds you in the palm of her hand. I used a couple of illustrations in my recent thread. Since it is usually not that difficult for a woman to entice a man sexually, a lot of WW's will dress provocatively to tease......and if he caves, then she knows she rules the relationship. Some go as far as going to bed, then immediately, she's back to being cold and done with him. She wants reassurance that she's still controlling the show, and when she gets it.....she is gone again.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
