Painter: I document what happens everyday. Every. Single. Day. If he comes over. When he goves me money. If he calls etc. He has no pattern really it is all over the place.
So far the only pattern he has is the nights he keeps the kids he will call or text me 5-10 times that night and the next day to see what I'm doing and where I'm going. He doesnt do it as much now but it is usually almost a guarantee he will call or text at least a few times.
I do think I need to work on boundaries, just not sure how to word or address the whole making commitmenta and then bailing boundaries with out making him feel like I am controlling him or idk. I do not know how to handle that.
