It's a difficult time when you're trying to establish new boundaries in a relationship. Right now, I think perhaps the best thing to do is to document exactly what happened on each of these occassions. That way you can see if there is a pattern and use it to figure out what your boundaries are and how the kids are hurt or benefit from them.

I think in general that he has little respect for you. I think boundaries is an area you could work on. Even if you love someone and want to be with them, you should have boundaries for how they get to treat you.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17