That's a bit of my dilemma Sandi - I have no way of telling what works as far as the W and M. I don't see her, there's zero contact and she's taken all the friends who assume I'm the one doing this. I am literally on an island now.
She'd have no idea if I did a 180, GAL, was hanging out in gay bars or got hit by a bus. Well, she'd probably find out about the bus.
I've been wanting to give her Mother a copy of DR so she'd understand what happened to her daughter. (her parents are freaking out) Then I considered asking her to give one to the W. I doubt that would be perceived by her as pursuing coming from her Mother - but who knows. Maybe just see if that's the natural course it runs?
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)