I Think it's Way Too Late

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Hi TimR (and everyone) thanks for the words of encouragement.
I'm in California. Thing is, my W forgot that she shared her cloud with me (microsoft one drive), so it's literally like a folder sitting on my desktop. While I won't share specifics or things like email where there would be an assumption of privacy, I'm certainly going to give them her strategies (lies though they may be) for taking certain assets.

Sorry I wasn't around to answer yesterday, as it was a long day at the doctors with my Mother.

Like many of you, disconnecting is a huge issue. In fact, about 18 years ago my wife moved out of the house, and I was completely accepting of it. I think at that point she was having an emotional relationship - and I was more of a "good riddance" mind. But after 30 years - you sort of think you've been through all of it.

Whether or not this is a combination of things like a late MLC thrown in - I sort of think it is. I got a confirmation on the credit card - she's going off to the Hard Rock Hotel for a little stay before she goes off to a high school reunion outing with the OM for spring training baseball in AZ. Holy smokes, almost 60 and that's where she's staying? Of course she wouldn't have been caught dead in a place like that a year ago. I believe that nobody knows in her high school group what is going on (save her assistant who is in denial), so they're keeping it on the low down. Like you say, believe 50% of what she does. This could actually be a wake up call to her - but who knows.

She's leaving for a company trip tomorrow, and giving Daisy to a friend to take care of. Of course it's hurtful she won't let me take her, but I would expect nothing else.