Thank you for letting me know that you are inspired by my post. When I wrote it I felt about as beaten down as is humanly possible. I don't feel I'm anywhere near to detaching, and I'm not sure I'm making the right moves here.
When I'm not sure, I default toward what I know will work. In this case it's me. I need to be happy. The alternative is just not an option anymore.
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou