What a great set of goals you have there! Sounds like you are doing better detaching that me. I am still in the hope phase... While I am not there hoping, I am hurting and thinking about just throwing in the towel. Then I go back to hope and I am going to fight.
I wish you every success in the future.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16