I don't think we can screw up I think it helps to be validating and kind but wither way most of these MLCers are on a preset track, some for disaster..at least for a while some do seem to come back around over time..some still seem strange after many years..some never snap out
You sound like you are doing very well given the situation and most importantly you will learn and grow and create a better life for yourself It happens for the LBS It seems like they get to have all the fun for a while, but the tables do turn for many over time
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