Hey,

Had a ok day, I picked up lids and W was at home the same time we arrived home. There was a lot of snow so we had a long snow ball fight. I seen the gay neighbor came outside and was talking to his neighbor beside him for a while. The whole time Wife was part of the snow ball fight but kept checking over to where he was. He never acknowledged my W. Didn't yell over hello. Thought that was interesting.

We all had dinner together that W cooked, S7 was giving us a hard time and W was frustrated. W and I both cleaned the cage of the new family pets. I put the kids to bed and then we just stayed in our separate part of the house.

W come into the room I was in and wants to talk about the email she sent about having agents in the house on Thursday. I didn't reply to it. I was frustrated and said I want nothing to do with it, I guess I have no choice but I would prefer if I wasn't there.

she asks me what is wrong I was fine yesterday and now I am grumpy. I said I can only take this stuff in small doses, asking about agents and selling this house is too much for me at sometimes.

So much for acting as if. I just find it hard to just go along with this moving/selling and giving no resistance to something I so do not want to do.

Taking emotion out of it, I should be doing everything possible to get the best price for the house. W is doing most of the heavy lifting for this and I am slowly going along with it with the resistance here and there. This is the same as any move in the past. A 180 would have me on board 100%. That like I said is just so difficult as I am not on board 100%.

I am talking to a mortgage broker right now to work out where I stand as far as that goes. Usually these moves have a way of working out.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016