Hi Sotto - glad your party went well, maybe next year I'll do one!
Just dropping in to say I'm doing ok - just less posting and reading on the threads as I find it all a little depressing.
I'm moving out in 10 days or so, if my friends flat is fixed up in time. It will be cheaper than the market rate and no deposit required and it's only for a few months so I can get a more permanent bigger plCe. I need a place with a garage to house all my bikes and bike maintenance stuff and hopefully to keep the kids bikes, scooters etc.
I feel that I have completely dropped the rope and given up on the M and R. I am focussing on me: my new place, work, my kids and my fitness. It's enough. Plus I've been peaking at the online dating scene - and getting a far bit of attention from 40 something women which is nice.
W is taking kids away for the rest of half-term to see an old friend of hers down Bath way and I'm working away for two nights in Amersham. Then back to do a little packing and more cycling with the club. I'm very fit for the time of year, building towards a big sportive in May.
I'm worried that the kids still don't know and have told W that I won't to inform them a sap - it will probably be this Sunday.
Bye for now x
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
