Hi Anita, do you have any experience with letting your S know that you have been ob this BB? I don't want my H to see it as some form of manipulation or something. He may see some of the tactics as manipulative. How do you feel about mystery? I don't want him to think that he left for the right reasons and she is having an A. How do I incorprate mystery without making him feel that I am moving on to someone else?
How long were you with OM? You use to tell Om that you were going home to do wash or watch TV? Were you really going home just to be closer to your family ? It seems that my H is fine and comfortable with this arrangement but he has gotta feel some of my pain. I cried myself to sleep last nite and i had a backslide because I called him @ 1am just to say I was thinking about you . But I have pulled myself up by the boot starps and am rearing to fight for my M! I was mhaving doubts last nit about why can't he see that it is worth saving? Why does he hold me to higher standards than he holds himself? Why does he feel like he has tried so hard but yet he did nothing but the same ole, Same ole. The definition of insanity-doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. That was us and probably many of you........
