Oh Cali, I'm sorry to read that. - ugh. But I am pleased with how you sound and I know you will do the best thing for yourself and your S - and you will be just fine in the longer term. All of that I know.

It is a shame that your W doesn't seem able to stop with the destructive choices and scuzzy OM. But that's up to her I guess. She is losing a lot by doing that.

Do keep posting and take care. You have travelled a great journey already no matter what your W does

((((Cali))))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus