well we finally had mediation. We both arrived at 0930 am and left the building at 5pm. We did not agree with anything. She refused taking any anger management classes. According to my L my W was getting loud with the mediator and the L because i filed income tax separately and not jointly in order to get more money back. I thought it was funny. I had emailed W 3 weeks ago about income tax and was asking her to either file jointly or separately and i wanted to see if i could file jointly. She ignored my email and never answered , after 4 days i went ahead and took the decision to file separately.
My W said she couldnt afford paying for the anger management classes. I told the mediator i would pay for them. She refused to go anyway unless i would also take the classes. I have no anger issues whats so ever. She is accusing me of getting in front of her face once and cornering her. I have never done such thing, i cracked up when my L told me that. WOW!
Mediator got mad because we couldnt come to any agreement all day. My L told that was normal , thats their job and their main goal is to have an agreement by the end of the day. My W wanted to set up a day to pickup her stuff like clothes and shoes , i told my L i didnt want her to come to my house until we went to court and resolved everything. My L advised me that would look bad on me and make me look like a D**** so i gave her the option of coming either thursday or friday and if she failed to come she would have to wait until court.
I got word my W made a police report because I stalked her. That was 5 months ago when i had no idea where my daughters were living and I followed her and found out she was living in a women shelter.
My L is gathering all my evidence and subpoena her mother, we are going to use her as a witness ( she doesnt know) Court day is on the 25th so it's going to be Armageddon. Which also happens to be on my birthday , what a coincidence.
To be honest I am ready but at the same time I am scared.
