I sometimes think that my H's pride is in the way of him coming home. If he comes home than all the world will know (in his mind) that he was wrong for leaving. I am not even saying that he is wrong. I don't think anyone else wants anything but our family together. My H has a huge go and a lot of fullish pride.
EX. He had an A about 1.5 years ago. I had an from 8/03-11/03. About a month ago he says what kind of man did you think i was that you could do that do me and i would be able to trust you again or come back? I said why do you hold me to higher standards thjan you hold for yourself? What kind of woman AM I to forgive you and want our M back?
