Toast - burnt or just right

[broke]

I'm sorry for you, Rich4j. I feel exactly the same about being on the D train. And I'm convinced my H is back with his OW as of this weekend. However, I only wish I could consider rejecting the idea of reconciling. Even after 7 months, I would still welcome the chance to at least try. But he filed, bought a house and told our sons the D is proceeding. So, I think it's time for me to start rejecting the idea too. Sorry you are feeling discouraged. I completely understand. And we have very similar timelines.