Sandi2's 37 Rules

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Generally speaking, women usually have to get one man out of their system before they can let another one in. That includes having sex and sexual touching, usually. I don't know about this youngest generation anymore, but back in the day, most women emotionally tied love and sex together, unless there was some type of profit behind her sex acts.

This is definitely the case with my W. I didn't want to believe the signs of detachment, or more specifically believed the excuses. Then rather than forcing myself into the situation (or questioning/confronting) I gave her the space I thought she needed. Stupid move. All that did was make her feel lonelier, and she moved more towards that emotional and then physical support while cutting me off.

The funny thing was it was all so fast. Really fast now that I look back, a few brief months to undo 30 years. And she played me like a violin until she got tired of that - because I believed her and it wasn't as fun as she had hoped.

Sandi's thoughts on the WW are downright creepy, how I wish they were wrong.