Did you want kids when you got married? Did he tell you he didn't? What's the background there?

I still vote for formal separation. If WAH decides to file and/or have an affair, fine, divorce him, get your head straight, and you'll have time to start a family.

If he comes back, he might be open to having children for your sake. Hard to know what the future holds. But I guess I'd like more info there.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15