Her being back for the boys is enough for me right now. They miss her and they are having issues with her being gone. She set a schedule and will be back for about a week and a half at a time. Can't predict the future on whether she will choose to go through with the D but I have to let things play out. Right now D is on hold.
Plus, she has R's she needs to still untangle? Do you even know if she's calling this reconciling or not?
I think you are making a mistake, but you are going to do what you want to do. I know it must be terrible seeing those little boys suffer. It just makes me angry to know she chose to break the family apart, and she's the one who took off.....now she has the gall to tell you that you both need to live in the same town (meaning of course, you moving to her town).
I don't buy into her wanting you to pursue her. What she wants is to have men pursue her. She is very wayward and just b/c she came home for a couple of days, does not change that fact.
What really concerns me, too, is the fact she told you there was another man who was pushing for a R, and she said she was there just for the boys.....and then you have sex with her? Please.....please, do not have unprotected sex when you know she's has been dating and possibly engaging in sex with someone else. Somehow, I just don't see her being completely honest about everything. Protect yourself.
Yes, you got sucked in, alright.....and temperature checked real good!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
