I believe I am at that point as well. Time to take a stand. The om seems to be in and out of the picture and when he leaves my ww calls or wants to hang out with the boys and I. Then they talk and she disappears.
She came over the other day and just broke down about how depressed she is and crying all the time. We talked and went for a walk and she pretty much said she has no one else to talk to but doesn't want to lead me on.
She agreed to go to counseling and had her first appointment today with the woman I am seeing. Afterward she came over to get the boys and I could tell she wanted to linger around and talk. Told me she liked the counselor and I told her I am glad she went and left it at that. I can't be her support system. She fired me from that job. She needs to figure this out alone and in the meantime I need to detach and not talk to her and hang out with her as much as I want to.
