G I'm not sure which way to go for you here. I know what you ultimately want but then read on how you are still angry about the no remorse. I agree she needs to own her mistakes but does she see a clear path back?
I'm not sure there is one. Your actions may need to be a little contact and set some boundaries about the shots she takes at you. But if she feels there is no way back to you then I think she will still be showing you anger
I am not saying pursue so don't confuse but there has to be some way for her to feel safe in letting the anger go and then own her part
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15