She stated she wanted me to pursue her. Not sure I believe this statement anymore either but on Friday she said that she has some relationships she needs to untangle back in Toronto.
Her being back for the boys is enough for me right now. They miss her and they are having issues with her being gone. She set a schedule and will be back for about a week and a half at a time. Can't predict the future on whether she will choose to go through with the D but I have to let things play out. Right now D is on hold.
Back to the untangling statement. I did not put any demands in front of her but told her I understood her sitch. As far as NC, I will continue to speak to her about the kids and not ask anything unless she wants to share. She stated one person was pushing hard for an R with her and that she needed to meet with him to give him back the necklace. I told her to do what she needs to do. She did want to be intimate with me on Thursday and Friday and we were. She slept in our bed all weekend.
I let myself get sucked in to kind of the same routine again over the time she was here but realize on need to improve my DB skills some more. We spoke on the phone on Monday while I was at work and she said that it drives her crazy that I keep using these passive/validating statements with her that she thinks I am getting from my therapist. She stated that she interprets that as me saying "whatever".
She asked me to tell her how I really felt. So I did but not sure that moved things in a positive direction because Monday night she was distant from me.
Although this was the first of many days that we will be together in the near future, I have learned that I have to hone my skills on DBing.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
