I'm glad to come here and read that you and your S arrived safe and sound. It will be a very interesting trip to see how he behaves in the "real" world.

I think you are wise to keep "mum" on BFF taking a position at his company. It may not click w/him, but if it does and he brings it up, you've got it covered.

So, now on to the safari...lions, tigers and bears, oh my! You just might get to see the wizard before this trip is over. LOL! Enjoy your time away.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.