We would want to be careful here and not violate the TOS here. Also posting email addresses would get us thrown off here. We would not want that at all.
How about giving some overall sense of this DBer's current situation to bring us all up to speed and what are some of the issues that she's struggling with? Perhaps post some of her questions here that she may have on how best to go about handling her dilemma.
Then we'll go from here! How does that sound to you two?