I have been in denial over our situation. I asked her pointblank yesterday if she was still going to move out. She said coldly, "yes I am going through with my plan".
I am tired of living in limbo and her giving mixed messages. I told her that I would like for her to have a place by end of month. She will hear nothing of working on M and says she has no more fight. Just doesn't want to be married.
Said we have been down this road before and are right back here so it would happen again. I tried to reason with her (stupid move) that we are both in individual counseling so it is different than our last go around 8 years ago. I asked her if she has any thoughts that her feelings might change with some space of the separation. She stated that she doesnt believe anything will change. She then asked me "Arent you afraid I will like being out on my own". I answered, what choice do I have. She is determined to do the single working woman parent thing. Never has lived out on her own before but this is what she wants.
She is on her mission to find herself and my son, me and our lives will be the casualties. I would sure appreciate some feedback especially since I have never been through a separation before. Do they EVER want to come back? Seems so remote of a chance. She also has said that she read a book about codependency. Says thats us. I dont agree, but thats her thoughts.
M-50 W46 S-13 ILYBNILWU again 1-15-2016 Wants sep. 2-12-2016
Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.
Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016
