Mb, to me the reason she was so chatty and open is her nervousness, she probably felt the need to keep talking to make things make sense to her, to tell you how great it is out loud so she could believe it herself by seeing if you were brought down by it. Essentially propping herself up on you.
She must have been incredibly disappointed then. I didn't really get upset when we were talking. I take that back, I did actually tear up twice while I was talking to her. Wasn't about anything she was saying, it was when I was telling her things that he had done. I was doing everything in my power NOT to cry though.
Originally Posted By: Tyler12
Eventually she will stop questioning what you told her and see him for who he is. Don't be angry at her, it's a waste of your energy. Don't think about her actions, also a waste. Personally I fear for her just a little because if she sticks around she will inevitably go through what you endured.
She is already having controll issues with him. When I told her that I had to call and talk to him from the time I left my driveway until I got to work and he heard the sound of the time clock, and again as soon as I left work and drove home...not hanging up until he heard the dog bark. She admitted that he also tries to make her call every morning when she's driving to work and if she doesn't, he calls to find out why.
As far as ow having to go through what I'm going through....she has been sufficiently warned! I told her exactly what he's like. I didn't hold anything back. So, if she continues to walk into this, she has her eyes wide open!
As far as the anger goes, I don't generally like to be angry, but currently, it's one of my favorite feelings!! It is replacing the feelings of hopelessness, despair and loneliness and making me feel less weak and unable to move on. I am hoping to keep the anger around for a little while.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
