So sorry to hear that your W has put you in a financial bind. That also socks that she out right lied to your 2 older kids and then they have the audacity to think they are doing right by everyone. I feel your pain Tyler12. I hope things turn around for you.
Good idea getting that money out of the joint account into solo account. I have been dawdling to do the same. Your story has inspired me to be a bit more pro active on that front.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016