If we are separated and have no contact whatsoever then I am also certain I have no chance of her returning.
First of all that is an EXPECTATION. Brings those down to zero.
You have no idea what will happen in the future. If you do - can you buy me the winning lottery tickets for next week? Or did you know that you would get married and then go through a rough patch now? Things change and sometimes we are clueless.
That being said, have you read the pursuit and distance thread in my first post to you?
So it sounds like you have been pursuing for your whole marriage. Was that healthy?
Keep reading and learning TimR, Knowledge is Power.
