Hope is not a Strategy- It looks done

[keefa]

Yep snap again rich4j, had (am having)the same. This has been said many times but man the spookiness of how often the same scenario's play out !
'M was over so i've done nothing wrong' ' this would have all been sorted if you'd have moved out months ago' and so on. My answer now ?
'Meh'

Thank you ciluzen. I'm not sure I am convincing myself just yet but I will keep going.
Some days you're the fly, some days you're the windscreen! (windshield!)

I love my Rugga but also play a little hockey too!

I found the A after picking up an old cell phone. I had an uncomfortable feeling something wasn't right for a while before BD. She actually swore on our boys lives that nothing was going on. I believed her. She had an Iphone, She had used it for the last few years although the contract was technically in my name.
She went out shopping but had asked me to cancel the contract and sell the phone as she had bought a new one in her name. I never found out why, just figured she wanted a new phone. I decided to give it to our eldest as a treat for school work etc and was waiting for w to return so we could chat about it. I decided to turn it on to check there were no family pics, birthday christmas memories etc before factory re-setting it. Ding...there were all the sexting pics, naked pics of him and pics of W with legs apart etc. Stuff i'd begged for to send to me but she'd never done so despite seeing her give birth twice etc. All the sex conversations, meetings and so on.
BUT.....guess what....yep she denied it and maintained had done nothing wrong.