Vise
I am actually glad to see you moving forward and doing some of this. I know that sounds strange, but the step has to happen. Nothing is going to gt better the way it is, you need to get out of her way and see where the cards fall.

I think the ring was a big step. I for a while wore mine during the day and then when i went home I would take it off. I was just fooling myself. I actually have two rings. One we bought a couple years later because i liked it better. I keep this one in my truck.

the other W had engraved a couple years after wedding and i forgot about it. I stumbled upon it a few weeks ago. I its tough, but i tucked it back away and just shrugged my shoulders, actually i tried it on again first.
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I think you will find you will be ok at times with this next phase, you will still have bad times, a lot. But you will also have moments of being ok. the trick is to move through those bad ones as quickly as possible.


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15