Hey

So where to start, Had another talk Intitated by W this time we didn't yell or argue. She has come closer to me with custady, Now I am just one day away from 50/50.So hopelully we can get there.

W tells me she found a house for me and that I should go see it. Its in the school zone and has a garage big enough for my hobby. I found it funny that it now that she cares if I have the space for my car and tools. She sure didn't care before.

I have started to realize that I cant stop this and I am going to need a place to live and for it to work out the best for both of us we will need to work together. So I go through with seeing the house and now I am looking into the details of how to purchase. Before I go look at the house I decided to take my ring off. I found it the only way to help me move forward with all this. It was the only way I could get the strength to do what I need to do for me and my kids.

On valentines day I helped the boys make a great breakfast and let them buy something for their mom. We all sat down and had a great breakfast together. W left right after to go shopping with her mom. I had the boys and took them to dog training. I let the boys pick up something small for trainer seeing as it was valentines day.

I exchanged the kids and met W half way to her parents, then I had Soccer my other GAL.

Next day W is in clean up mode, The most motivated I have seen from her to clean. Its all motivated by a agent that she contacted that wants to look at the house. They want to show the house to a couple that is very interested in the house.

So now I have the hard task of fixing up the house to get it ready for sale, it does make the heart heavy but I am trying to act as if.

last night W says she found a house that she is interested in, its les then 10 min away from the house I was looking at. So with all of this, non of this is 100% going to happen as with real estate anything can happen. It is the start though.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016