Red, I'm so sorry you had to hear that from friends and family. I hear the same thing too! Everyone seems to think my H is cheating as well...yet I have zero proof.
It's your choice. Period. Your life. Period.
Come on here an vent to us.
I know my H is going through something and the right decision for me, no matter how painful, is to keep my heart and mind open to see this through until I CHOOSE otherwise. Not am told or convinced otherwise.
Ugh.
This is why we DB to rewire ourselves. It takes time girl! It won't happen over night and you have to process these changes in your own time. It's hard, it stinks BUT at the end of the day it's your choice.
