Need help. Threading water, must learn to swim.

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Wow TimR!!! I am truly grateful that my WW'S A is with om in different state 8 to 10 hours away because I would definitely confront the om. That took some intestinal fortitude for you not to confront him. Funny thing about my WW is that although she denies having an A, she doesn't nothing to hide it. She truly believes that what she is doing is not an A and it's not only in her best interest but also in the best interest of D3. And she calls me crazy? Aye, aye, aye....

Glad to hear you feel you are having some success pulling back. Just be careful and don't read too much into it. I thought I was having a bit of success by pulling back last week because I got 2 dinner invitations and an invite to the zoo. I was happy but not excited and then on Thursday I was unable to ignore her verbal jabs and got pulled into an argument which has fester ed through yesterday even with her gone Friday night through Sunday night. Another day, so back to the drawing board.